Domestic violence perception,why you shouldn’t keep quiet and the solution

Domestic violence perception, why you shouldn’t keep quiet,and the solution

Domestic violence is described as the act of physical harming or offensive contact with your partner without their consent.

Domestic violence can also be defined as unwilling act of physical abuse or
Intentional unpermitted act of causing harm or hitting your partner.

Introduction

I have kept quiet for awhile about the issue of domestic violence but it actually something that requires huge and maximum attention in our society. Percentage of females experiencing domestic violence and the age bracket mainly affected.
Domestic violence is something that should be spoken up about and should not be kept confidential and instance where it secret it leads to death which is really alarming in the nation.

About 51% of women in Africa experience domestic violence,there is huge record of women killed out of domestic violence than anyone could imagine. 78% of female in the Northern region of Nigeria marry immediately she experience her first period and she is sent to her husband house.

15-44 years old woman are mainly the victims of domestic violence even these public figures experience domestic violence imagine Osinachi Ekwueme a gospel singer and public figure and lots more experience such but hide it away from people so they’ll not be subject of mockery and they make people believe in this imaginary perfect life they have. No one has a perfect life and that straight. Living is like utmost human priority so why should what people say or feel about you be your priority.

This is a matter of life and death do you get it. Hiding domestic violence till death does not make you a strong woman,speaking up domestic violence makes you a strong woman.Speak up while you are still alive. Do not push yourself to the elastic limit where you become a murder or you’re being murdered

Why? Despite all banners raised against domestic violence, people still keep it secret till death even God will judge you because it is act of stupidity. It is more like you want to kill yourself. Why will you claiming you want to keep a home?
Ask yourself do you have a home first? Was the home even existing?
Know the difference between home and house
Follow the tips as solutions to the above question

Home is peaceful and that only exists when there is peace and after being giving a house that is the component of a home. A man claims he loves you and he hits you, that is not longer love,it sounds more like hatred to even if it is in the name of anger issues or mental issues he should seek help and give him his space. If your partner is cheating and you can not bear it, leave run for your life so you will not become a beast in the name of marriage.You said who will take care of your children if you leave?
Little tips to solve the above question
As a woman you need to know you’re your priority first and foremost. It is when you are alive you will remember you have kids,do not because of children keep a marriage. Marriage only works when there is peace and love. Know that and know peace. Learn to take charge at times not about not being submissive but they are your children right? you definitely have a stronger bond with them and they will understand. If you dead along the line claiming you are protecting them
Dearest,they will blame you for being stupid and they might grow up hating everything and everyone. They are chances they will be sadist maybe end up involving in domestic violence then it will look like curse. Is that the life you want for them? Am sure not.You don’t want that.
Do not kill yourself in the name of marriage,am begging you dear reader. A broken home is better than death,What people think or will say is better than obituary please.
Even if you are a minister of the word and you are facing domestic violence, please leave,Let the judgement be between you and your God. Don’t die because of what people will say don’t please.
If it is about the finance,do not kill yourself for money ,iPhone ,designers ,food ,nice picture backgrounds and rides. Just so as to impress your friends is there someone that say you can not make money yourself. Have confidence in yourself,do not low your esteem for anyone,do not lose the gorgeous you for anyone. Make your money it will earn you respect lot ,do not sit jobless and expect respect .You work to earn respect ,everyone is destiny for greatest. Believe in yourself. Speak up domestic violence/Toxic relationship /Toxic marriage. Walking out of domestic violence is a great step in saving yourself,Only you can save you.

Please and please be ready to take the strength and courage to leave.Your mental and emotional well-being is very important please. Domestic violence should not be a subject of mockery or disgrace either physical or Media.You never might tell, it kills so badly than the pain.

Author of the Article: Adeoti Odunayo Boluwatife

Publisher: Gistcore media.

This content should not be copy without the permission of the author.

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